Death Cafe

As the facilitator of the Steamboat Death Café, I create a welcoming and open space for people to gather in honest, heartfelt conversations about death and dying. This is not a grief group or a counseling session but rather a community-led dialogue where curiosity, reflection, and shared experience guide us. With deep reverence for life’s impermanence, I hold space for participants to explore their own thoughts, fears, and wonderings about death in a way that is free from judgment or agenda. My role is to ensure that everyone feels heard, respected, and supported as we engage in a topic that is often pushed to the margins of daily conversation.

I believe that speaking about death—openly and without fear—can bring us into greater alignment with life. Through the Death Café, I offer a space where people can connect, share stories, and build a sense of collective wisdom around an experience we all share. Rooted in my work as a death doula and my experience in guiding people through life’s thresholds, I bring warmth, presence, and a deep appreciation for the mystery of it all. Whether you come with questions, stories, or simply a willingness to listen, you are welcome here.

  • Encourages Personal Reflection

    Whether you are facing loss, supporting a loved one, or simply curious, Death Café invites you to explore your own beliefs and feelings about mortality. These conversations can lead to profound self-discovery and a greater sense of acceptance.

  • Deepens Appreciation for Life

    Acknowledging death often brings a sharper focus on what truly matters. Many leave with a greater appreciation for the present moment, feeling inspired to live more intentionally and meaningfully.

  • Builds Community & Connection

    Death Café is a space for open-hearted dialogue, free of judgment or expectation. By sharing experiences and perspectives, we cultivate a sense of belonging and remind ourselves that we are not alone in our questions, fears, or hopes.

  • Reduces Fear & Anxiety

    Talking about death helps to normalize it, making it feel less overwhelming or isolating. Many participants find that engaging in these discussions leads to greater peace of mind and a healthier relationship with mortality.

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“Attending the Steamboat Death Café was a deeply meaningful experience. The space felt warm, open, and free of judgment, allowing me to explore my thoughts on death in a way I never had before. I left feeling lighter, more connected, and with a newfound appreciation for life.”

FAQs

What is a Death Café?


A Death Café is a group-led conversation about death and dying, designed to be open, respectful, and agenda-free. It’s not a grief support group or counseling session but rather a welcoming space to explore thoughts, feelings, and questions about mortality over tea and conversation.

Who can attend a Death Café?


Anyone! Death Café is open to all, regardless of background, beliefs, or experience with death. Whether you're curious, processing personal loss, or simply want to engage in meaningful dialogue, you are welcome here.

What happens during a Death Café gathering?


Each session is unique, shaped by the participants who attend. After brief introductions, we engage in organic, free-flowing conversations about death, dying, and life. There’s no set agenda—just an open space to listen, share, and reflect.

Do I have to talk, or can I just listen?


There is no pressure to share. Some people come ready to talk, while others prefer to listen and absorb. Both are valuable ways to participate, and all forms of engagement are welcome.